How you respond to
emotions may have implications for your psychological health
Source: Psychology Today |
She grabs her son by the arm and rushes to her infant daughter’s room to swoop her up. Michiko manages to get to the stairwell, one struggling child under each arm. Dust begins to fall from the ceiling, and she
realizes that there is no way to get all three of them down the long, steep
staircase safely. She rushes to return her infant to her crib, kisses her hot
face, and begins the challenge of wrestling her toddler down the perilous
stairs.
Once outside, she looks desperately for someone she can
entrust her toddler to so that she can return for her daughter. Huge buildings
tilt and crack as a sea of panicked humanity rushes by her.
This is a fictional recombination of several real accounts
told to us by our research participants, living and working in Tokyo, Japan
during the March 2011 tsunami, earthquake, and nuclear crisis.
The Regulation of Emotion
I study emotion regulation, or the strategies people use to change or
modify their emotional states in order to feel better or meet some other sort
of goal, such as behaving appropriately in a social situation. Most of
the time, the situations that require us to regulate our emotions are fleeting
and minor (you must dampen your irritation with a frustrating client in order
to maintain a good working relationship). Decades of research have taught us a
lot about which methods of emotion regulation are most successful.
This
research seems to indicate that one of the most effective emotion regulation
techniques is that of cognitive reappraisal – the ability to rethink the nature or implications of a situation in order to alter its impact (the
client is just trying to please his own boss – I can recall being in similar
situations and should be more patient).
So, cognitive
reappraisal is effective, and both how frequently you use cognitive reappraisal
in your daily life and how successfully you are able to use it to reduce
negative emotions have been linked to all
sorts of good outcomes like lower depression and heightened well-being. (Continue reading)
🔎Sarah Rose Cavanagh, Ph.D. is an assistant professor of Psychology and Director of the Laboratory for Cognitive and Affective Science at Assumption College.
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